Better foreplay means different things to different people. Even the definition of the word better is a moving target, as everyone has a different definition and use different words to describe it. The definition I am using is that the last few minutes of foreplay should be the best time for you and your partner to achieve orgasm. The whole process of lovemaking, including foreplay, should be enjoyed, starting from the very first breath.
My definition of better foreplay is all about putting the relationship before the orgasm. Getting there together is great, you get to enjoy each other and therefore you can get an orgasm, but the most important thing is having a satisfying relationship together.
There are many games you can play in the bedroom to achieve this. To start with striptease, the clothes off is a great experience, and you can really see what you have got, but the Vanilla Putties are much better. Anyone who is interested should take a look at the current trend, the dildo is perhaps one of the most popular sex toys on the market.
The history of the dildo can be traced back to Roman times. The god Bal (who was the original God) had as his usual sexual position a young woman on top of a large phallus. divineatio was how he pleased himself. The goddess of love, Aphrodite married Bal and thus the dildo was created.
It has since been shown that there was really more to the phallus than meets the eye. sacred prostitutes were the ones who would take male clients to the temple and perform fellatio on them. Sacred prostitutes were the ones who were likely to go down on a man, and it was their special ‘powers’ that granted them permission to do so.
Of course it is also the job of the temple prostitutes to make sure that the workers got the job done and there are versions of the story where the young boy’s father and priestess are later overheard discussing the arrangements for the priestess to perform the act.)
And what does the dildo have to do with better foreplay?
Nothing, you will just have to thank the liberator for itself.aches will be flying off the shelves, the bed will be so neat and tidy that you will wonder why you haven’t had better sex before.
Of course some women will have a real fondness for the obesity of the dildo, but it is not all women who prefer aregular erection to peppermint or a brains and beauty encase. Men will still prefer the love of their partner, be it illicit or regular, but with a Normal erection, they will be able to enjoy the experience without too much trouble.
For couples, better foreplay will mean that they can relax and enjoy the process, rather than worrying about attaining the end result (better sex). This brings about a continuous and healthy improvement in their sex life.
And this brings about a scissors edge, which can cut both ways. More importantly, it can help both partners get to the climax they want to get to – which is a great thing.
For example, if you are a guy, you can learn how to please your woman in such a way that you can get her to want to have sex with you whenever you want. First you can start to talk to her in a sexual way, pointing out all the ways that she is loved (and needed) throughout the day.
Then you can start examining her and pointing out all the ways that she is not. You will be happy in the way she responds to your loving gestures. This is the beginning of seduction.
Keep this up, little by little. Little by little you will find out what your woman wants.
Note the speed – too fast and you will annoy the girl, and too slow and you will make her feel that you are touching her emotions. You will be surprised when you find out what she secretly desires from you.